You know I've heard this a lot lately from coaches when talking to parents but there is a flip-side to this as well. For a good coach, yes, definitely without question. For a not-so-good coach, maybe. For a bad coach, no.
I'm a parent and I've been doing the softball-parent-thing for a decade now and my DD's have played for some wonderful coaches and some awful coaches. I've learned the hard way that you can't just give a coach free range to do whatever. As a parent, you have a responsibility to your kid to listen, watch, and evaluate the coach (which takes some experience and time). I always give the coach the benefit-of-the-doubt. And as players have different skill levels, the same is true for coaches.
In this age with specialty positions, specialty coaches, lessons, etc. Somewhere in there you have to help your as she's developing who and what to listen to. My DD is a catcher and has had a specialty coach helping her develop those skills preparing her for the next level of play for a couple of years now. That coach is awesome and has helped my DD tremendously bloom into a heck of a catcher. Specialty position, specialty coach.
Things are going great. She has colleges interested, more scouting her, she's really starting to come into her own, she's having a blast and loves catching, and wham. We get a coach who wants to change everything with no real good reason of why. Literally, the reason was "I'm the coach". And to top it off the first comment made tells my DD and me this coach doesn't really know what the catching position truly entails (You pick up a few things taking your kid to lessons).
Trust the coach? Really? NO, I don't think so. We gave the a host of reasonable and logical reasons why that wasn't a good idea and never receive a logical reason back. As a parent, I'm not letting an ignorant coach step in the way and damage the success my DD has had. I would be irresponsible to let that happen to my child.
We have had no other coach have any issues with my DD. Usually it's the opposite because she's so into the game she's like having a mini-coach on the field. She's been taught by the catching coach not just to catch but lead and manage the team.
I will say most of my DD's experiences with coaches including other sports have been great. And I do respect those guys because I have two DD's, I can't imagine managing 12 to 14 at one time. And I don't coach my kid, she has enough of those, but I do watch and observe. And as a parent of a player, I do have the responsibility to my kid to do that because young kid growing up hasn't learned to do all of that yet.
Just saying...