I posted a tongue-in-cheek message about not wanting the season to end and my daughter not wanting to sit home on weekends after PONY Nationals, and recieved a private message from Bill Lilley, discussing the possibility of her pitching for the Little Slammers in the ASA Nationals. He cited a lack of pitching beyond one girl as his need for another pitcher. We had some brief exchanges, but he had another pitcher who was also interested, so nothing ever came of it.
In retrospect, I am not sorry that was the case. While I give every credit to the girls that play on the Little Slammers and the success that the team has had, I believe that Mr. Lilley's constant promotion of the team is as much related to his own desire for publicity as wanting to highlight a team's success.
I think it is important for all parents to remember that our job it to raise children who can function as adults in a complex world. Softball, in the scheme of things, is irrelevant, other than what it can teach children about dealing with life.
Any person who tells you that their program can help your daughter get a scholarship at a Big Ten school or a PAC 10 school or any school is on dangerous ground, even if they can produce. I say this because the college scholarship is not the end goal - rather it is the education that your daughter will get (and it getting by playing on an organized team). What is the cost? I have said this before - if your desire is to get your daughter a college scholarship, then get a math tutor, your odds are much better of getting scholarship money.
I am pleased about the team for which my daughter plays. We respect each other. We play hard, but fair. Sometimes we lose, but we learn from it. The girls will be fine.
We had the chance to play against a team that had a tactic of sending their runners off first base early. It bacame obvious after the first few steal attempts where our catcher was getting the ball to second when the girl was already standing up. I state that this was a tactic - in my opinion - because I am not the other coach, but the evidence pointed to that tactic.
I would guess that the coach's philosophy was - "Hey, the umpire can call us out, but if they don't, we gain an advantage. So let the umpire make the call." Sounds like strategy on the surface, but I have a different translation. "Cheat until you get caught. The rules say we can't leave until the pitch, but if no one calls it, that is their problem, not ours."
Wow. That is EXACTLY what I want my daughter to be learning. "Cheat until you get caught."
So, back to bringing in an ace. Mr. Lilley has posted elsewhere regarding his philosophy regarding that tactic, so I will not reiterate his beliefs.
My own personal belief is that if that technique is going to cost other team members playing time, then it is the wrong thing to do. It shows a lack of respect for those existing team members. And if the exclusive goal is to win a tournament, then it is probably the wrong thing to do. Not that winning is bad - but winning at any cost is bad.
But I am not a coach - just a parent. My goal is to keep getting better at that job.