msutt1 great post
Also, as he mentioned, the glass ceiling is as thick as you want to make it. If you want to make it as thin as possible, then somethings must happen. First, the dd who wants to play, is she marketing herself to the colleges by calling them (understanding she knows tey can't call back until senior year) and hoping she reaches them (or telling them what time she will call back), emailing college coaches, working hard on her grades, attending camps? Second, is the parent(s) doing their homeowrk on teams/organizations that has great success that matches their dd's dreams/abilities? Once parent did their job and believed to find a right fit, is the travl coach calling those college coaches and marketing that player? Is the travel coach going to try and attend the showcases to help their players achieve their dreams/abilities? Is the head of organization helping that travel coach into getting into the top possible showcases to showcase the orgs players?
But it starts with the player. Is she working hard on her skilset, or does she spend most of her time on social media on a beautiful day outside (not including rest days)?