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I guess I agree with some and disagree with some, but let me start by sauing that I manage a 10U team that is almost entirely 9's. This is their first year of travel and what I have is what the parents have raised. Some are Criers and some aren't. I also coach H.S. football and Baseball and obviously there is NO criers there, except after a tough loss in a big game. I don't think that we as coaches can have a cookie cutter approach to any "team" that we coach. Boy/Girl, young/older...Every kid/player is different. Some players we can kick in the rear and tell them the have to be better, some need an arm around the shoulder, tell them that they are good, but could be much better if they gave a little more effort. I guess in my mind, I coach every kid differently. I am a little tougher on my kids and my oldest is somewhat tough between the ears, but my 9 y.o. is a very emotional kid. Just the other night at practice she was pitching and was struggling. I was supportive but still a little stern letting her know she had to do a little better. I could see that she was starting to cry, so I went to her and told her that struggling on the mound was no reason to cry and that she had it in her. she just had to work a little harder to find it that night. She stopped crying and did just that. She got better and finished out pretty well. The bottom line is that at least at the younger levels, kids cry. It's an emotion. Handle it accordingly to the individual.