We got started at 10u by just seeing an Ad in the local "suburban" newspaper and thinking that sounds like fun, and then checking with a bunch of friends to see who was going to the local travel team try-out. That worked great to get started thru several fun 10u years - excellent/upgraded competition & challenge over rec/travel, while still playing with some good friends for the social & "security" aspects (important to baby daughter at the time).
When it was time to move on from there at 11u, we checked this board, and were OVERWHELMED with opportunity under "Coaches Need Players". We could have scheduled incremental 2 hour try-outs from 8:00 - 6:00 on Saturdays & Sundays for a month straight in August and early September. We literally picked out the various teams (for various reasons) which we wanted to explore and set up a "grid" of try-outs. We narrowed it down to around 4-5 try-outs and dove in. First one, we were thinking might be over our heads compstition & commitment wise, daughter was even re-thinking whether she wanted to get out of the car ( :-[ LOLOL!!), but a returning team member greeted her & and was friendly, and the rest was history.
We also read board comments on the various organizations quite a bit, and asked around. This can be good and bad, and as always "all information is good information" HOWEVER "don't believe EVERYTHING you read". :
I strongly agree with others though, that if you are interested and you know it now, an incredible resource would be to go to a few tournaments in July and check out the action, level of play, various team interactions & expectations, coaching styles, parent sections, etc. Different teams may differ tremendously in expectations for practice, travel, performance, etc. I have been approached in both my obnoxious screaming role as a psycho-dad in the stands, and as a asst coach in the past by inquiring parents and it is always enjoyable to chat about it - so, ASK!! You'll find "the one" that feels right - it's different for everyone.
Another thing, you may find teams looking to pick up a player late in the year for Nationals, or injuries. Might be a great option for YOU to "try out" a TEAM, if your season is over and release is secured.
Just some thoughts. Hope you don't mind the integrated trip down memory lane, fun to reflect on how we got here (to a year round fastpitch dominated happy life
), but also I remember how confusing the process can be when you are thinking about commiting to the travel/tournament level. :-/