Sorry to hear about your dd's problems. My dd is a pitcher at the 12u level, and we have been through a couple rounds of "jumpers knee". She also plays volleyball, which is where the problem began. We went through all the usual treatments without too much success i.e. rest, ice, compression, elevation, and physical therapy. We eventually went to the chiropractor that I see on occasion for my back. He noted that some of her problem was due to a mild case of flat feet that was throwing her knee alignment off. He fitted her for some expensive orthotics (that my insurance picked up thank God!), continued her with ice, specialized exercises, electric stimulation, ultrasound, and all the other "voodoo" that chiropractors use. It worked to a large degree. The only problems she has had is when she "forgets" to wear her orthotics, and "forgets" to do her exercises. We have not had to deal with the other problems that you have mentioned, but I'm fairly certain that any physician will tell you that It won't get better unless she stops the activity that is irritating it i.e. softball, volleyball, or whatever. It sounds from your post like she has had this injury for a while and has been "playing through it". That is a dangerous practice with chronic joint injuries. If these types of injuries are not given the time to heal, they will only get worse, or morph into something much worse. JMO, but this is the off season for softball, who cares about winter or fall ball, or even camps for that matter. Get your dd the treatment she needs to get in shape for the regular season, if that is even still within reach. As much as we all love this sport, it is not even close to being worth an injury that will cause someone pain and discomfort for the rest of their lives. I wish you and your dd all the best and hope for a speedy and complete recovery!