@hornet:
Sadly, if the coach didn't attend the meeting, any all-league honors for your team members were truly dependent upon the kindness of strangers (or in this case, opposing coaches who probably take seriously their desire to see their own players recognized, which puts them in a really awkward position).
Not sending in results to the local and regional media, not showing up for meeting that will decide all-conference honors. I'm just not getting this. (And just to be clear, I have absolutely no information suggesting that your coach did either of these things; I just know that it has happened, with respect to stats/results especially this year, and I don't understand that conduct).