backstop,
i see your point, but as usual doing the "right" thing is outvoted 20-something posts to your one..
we had a game last week, some bad calls, some actually really good, but coach was sent "to the bench" (he wasn't officially thrown out but couldn't walk out on the field to coach baserunners or talk to his pitcher)...even during the game, girls got a warning for mock-grunting (their pitcher grunted when she pitched, and as teenage girls go, grunting is grounds for immediate roll-eye dissapproval..we end up losing 8-7 in extra frames
anyhow, DD gets in the car, she starts going on and on about how she "sucked" and how the other girls were blaming other teammates instead of wrrying about their own play, and of course crying about the ref calls, and like usual, here i am saying, "stop crying about looking at a 3rd strike call when you should have been swinging at strikes 1 or 2!"
it's always easier AFTER the fact to look back on not getting distracted by umps...even while their own parents sarcastically clap after the game was over and feed comments like "good one even though you blew most of the calls!"...and playing good ball every inning...
about the most DD does is say "good pitch" after a close one or ask privately on her own a few innings later (she was called out on a force out running to second after a dropped pop-up by the left fielder when the shortstop wasn't on the bag, hence the problem with one ump and 2, her not going halfway when the ball was in the air which was her baserunnign mistake!) and he tells her, "there's only 1 of me and i can't see everything" which, of course, reminded me of one at Teays Valley last year when she picked off a girl at third only to be clled safe and the ump says "i think you got her" huh?
in fact, the number of "bad call" and "bad coaching" threads is very high right now that school ball is ending its run and the scent of travel ball is among us...maybe the reason is that the parents who cry foul the most have DD's that are always throwing their gloves and staring down the refs