wow, some great views here...
sad,
you are correct that every pitcher gets hit, especially with the vast amount of good/great hitters out there and some wonderfully hot bats....what matters is do, regardless if it's a coach/dad situation or even a catcher depending on the age/experience, have the ability to call a good game...you can only throw the fastball so much, which is like batting practice to some of these hitters....a pitcher is only as good as her signal caller
as for hawks, i think it would be a huge assumption to pencil in amount of innings (unless, of course, she's a hoss) for any pitcher,...with the pressure to get a good seed in pool play and to win in a single elim tourney, there's no time to rest your hoss to give someone else the innings, but then are we, as in any coach/org, doing the right thing in terms of development when you stick with one starter throught the day, ...eventually, they will pitch every game in a tourney anyway, you think monica abbott sat any games during the ncaa tourney? yeah right! i know you arent the only one trying to keep everyone happy, good luck!
but for any parent developing your dd, work on location, location, location and keeping hitters off balance, unless of course, your a hoss...