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I know some of you don't want to hear this but, I just got to get this off my chest! ?I have a dd that plays softball and for as long as she has been in this sport I have told her that hard work will get her everywhere, well what happens when it doesn't? ?It seems as though no matter how hard she works or how hard she tries it's not enough! ?I'm convinced that it's do to the fact that I won't ?get "in" good with the coaches or the "clicks" but I refuse to do that! ?It's not me playing! why should I? ?But because I'm not doing my part she gets looked over every time. ?I know some of you maybe thinking maybe she is not that good and that maybe I am not looking at my daughter like a coach would look at her but let me asure you I don't want to make my dd more then what she is, point blank if was not good I would tell her. ?I'm not the type of parent that makes their kid feel bad but I believe that "sugar coating" things only will hurt my kid rather then help them. ?Really I'm to the point where I regret getting her into this sport but I also don't want her to give in. ?She is on a really good travel team and I love her coach, it's the high school thing that has me seeing red! ?I'm sorry if I upset some of you but I just don't know what to do anymore.