Re: Video of swings
MOMSOFTBALL- Don't get discouraged. All this criticism is well meaning- I think it's brave to put your DD on video and asking a bunch of softball nuts about her swing, but it's awesome that you are a MOM asking about her swing, and that your DD is young and hopefully coachable. I think if you get her to a coach that she likes, who knows what he's doing and who will inspire her to practice, she will be a success.
DD is pitching in high school this year and I have seen some unbelievably talented girls at the plate. These tend to be girls who can wait for "their" pitch, who can foul off pitches that aren't theirs, who can stay back on change ups, and who can take the ball to any part of the field (shallow, opposite field, etc). These are the girls who can swing the same whether its 3-1 or an 0-2 count.