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Don't be our parents. Let her have it. What the harm, really? Not like she wants a nose ring and a bunch rings on her lips. For a good kid and I am with your thought "It's not drugs, secks or alcohol. It seem benign enough to give her a little freedom and I can lay the hammer down on the real big issues."
My DD has the green light on a nose piercing or additional ear piercings or even a tattoo in an easily hidden spot but since she got the green light the subject hasn't come up again. They just want their boundaries to expand every now and then.
I agree, Musty. Pick your battles. Love hearing about the healing part as if she decides to not have it anymore... it will heal. I didn't know for sure... glad someone chimed in on it. I think that information helps in the decision process under " What if?" category.
Boundaries searching is not over as a teen. As adults.. everyone continues to see where that boundary is.