Try-out or not try-out that is the question???

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I had a coach point blank tell me "if you want to know who's coaching, come to the try-outs and find out."

It sounds like you were already talking to the coach or at least a coach, right? At least that is what you typed anyway. I would say it is a no-brainer, if you are not comfortable unless you are made aware of the entire coaching staff (I am assuming this since it was a coach with whom you were already in contact) then move on. Both my DD's went through a mess because the organization we joined was secretive and then downright deceitful. I would say simply move on and find a good organization, there are quite a few in Dayton, only a couple bad applezzzzzzzzzz. ? :-?