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I have been blessed to have 2 grown kids and 2 at 15 and 11.......get to correct some of my decisions from the first go around so to speak.......at 16 my son decided he was burnt out on sports and needed a break.......I always said it would be his decision.......well he went from being burned out to being a burnout....took me a long time to get him back on the right track....he is now 30 and doing ok......can't tell you how many times he has said I just wish I would have stuck with it......now on the occassions where my 15 year old says she wants a break from basketball.....never has said softball yet, I tell her thats fine but it will not be the social hour.......another activity........a job, extra chores, music, drama...or whatever is required as a time occupier.....she always comes back to okay Dad I'll stick with the program and she is always happy she did......the comments of outside influences hit the nail right on the head in my opinion......new friends not into sports....perhaps a boyfriend......preoccupied with now being able to drive.....could be any number of things really.