Johnnies and Mrs. LEH - nice posts. None of the following is directed at faulltless - just my opinion on the topic.
I sometimes wonder if we are aware of what we are really asking these girls to sacrifice to play 'travel' softball. Not too long ago, it used to just be spring and summers. But now, if you are not taking hitting, pitching and fielding lessons 12 months a year, playing fall ball and spending your winters training, practicing and playing an abomination of softball called indoor, you are not considered a serious player or team. Any girl not willing to commit their life and a majority of their free time year round to softball is labeled a non-serious, non-dedicated player and ridiculed by the 'serious' softball people. I've never understood that.
All three of my daughters have played travel softball, oldest played 5 years and did not play the summer after she graduated high school, but did play the summer after her freshman year in college. She loves the game and wants to be a coach someday. She also played 3 sports in high school and softball was considered secondary to anything school related and our team did not play all year. Second daughter played 3 years and was done after age 13. Third daughter played 1 year of travel ball and has not played softball of any kind since she was 10.
Second and third daughters were 'encouraged' to play. Second daughter plays 2 sports in high school and I will be lucky if the 3rd one plays one.
All kids are different, but I sometimes wonder if playing intense travel ball at younger ages is going to burn out more and more of these kids. The other significant difference in my daughter's experiences are the ages in which they started. Oldest was 13 and in 8th grade, second was 11 and in 5th grade and youngest was 10 and in 4th grade. Did I start the younger 2 too early? Who knows.
How many of us as adults would choose to devote 10-15 consecutive years of our lives to an intense, time-intensive activity where your performance and dedication is constantly compared, and not always favorably, to the very best there is? An activity where the 'adults' involved in it often act younger than the children playing it. An activity where no matter what you do, you are asked for more. Many adults don't have the drive and dedication to maintain a high level of performance at a job for 15 years. Yet these young children are put under an intense microscope for virtually their entire childhood. JMHO