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there's been lots of talk about tryouts this year, of course, right around this time.....differences from last year, turnouts, etc...but one thing that I don't see is anyone, DD or dads, talking about waiting for that email/that phone call....at some tryouts, you never even get a reply, i'm sure (this happened a few times years ago trying out for 12's)....some girls, i guess, dont have to wait around for it, they are returning players (my guess is that the majority of OFC posters' DD's have returning spots on their respective teams, which is probably why they discuss more on OFC--if you are new to the "burbs" or have a DD that roams the softball countryside like Fed Ex mail, you probably are one of the many OFC lurkers) anyways, always leave it to statman to go on a tangent
for us this year, while I wont get into super specifics (one day i'll write a tell-all blog, now THAT would be fun!) about my own case (most people know where my DD's color resigns!), i got to thinking about other players we came across from tryouts and all their parents who might be stressin about that "wait"
does it make you respect/disrespect an org more or less if they communicate their intentions? this is probably why i would find it hard to coach, to send those emails, to make those calls, because i would think that in some terms there is always that "why?" if it's a negative...i remember sending off short stories to publishers, getting that standard "no thanks" reply, or nothing at all, sometimes you get that one line "try again" from that one copy editor who liked the story and felt "bad" for me (sorry, tangent number 2)...that would be me, "well, try again..."
anyways, let me know what you think, or just lurk and stay silent (and you wonder why you dont have Addicted status!)
for us this year, while I wont get into super specifics (one day i'll write a tell-all blog, now THAT would be fun!) about my own case (most people know where my DD's color resigns!), i got to thinking about other players we came across from tryouts and all their parents who might be stressin about that "wait"
does it make you respect/disrespect an org more or less if they communicate their intentions? this is probably why i would find it hard to coach, to send those emails, to make those calls, because i would think that in some terms there is always that "why?" if it's a negative...i remember sending off short stories to publishers, getting that standard "no thanks" reply, or nothing at all, sometimes you get that one line "try again" from that one copy editor who liked the story and felt "bad" for me (sorry, tangent number 2)...that would be me, "well, try again..."
anyways, let me know what you think, or just lurk and stay silent (and you wonder why you dont have Addicted status!)