Re: Changing of the guard? The
Bigtrain,
I remember how boring those rec league softball practices were for both my daughter and me! Took a combination of just the right circumstances and timing for my daughter to still be playing softball:
? ? ?-- ? ? ?her brother took up baseball/pitching (so his little sister wanted to give pitching a try);
? ? ?-- ? ? ?by total happenstance, we hooked up with a great softball instructor (few in the area, not cheap, and can be very hard to find);
? ? ?-- ? ? ?rec league softball practices and games remained boring while soccer/basketball were sooooo much more fun to play (and watch), but her softball instructor suggested tournament softball (something we knew absolutely nothing about);
? ? ?-- ? ? ?still my daughter would have ended up playing soccer or basketball because there were no 10U tournament softball teams in the Cleveland area, but her softball instructor told us to check out OFC (nothing else out there to help us find a 10U tournament team);
? ? ?-- ? ? ?via OFC, we hooked with a 10U team and were invited to a tryout in Akron (wouldn?t have driven all the way to Akron for tryout and practices if we had younger children or we couldn?t afford it); and
? ? ?-- ? ? ?she made the 10U team in Akron (several girls who tried out didn?t make the team);
? ? ?-- ? ? ?she chose to play tournament softball that summer, instead of rec league or travel league softball, soccer or AAU basketball (a 10 year old chose to play with a bunch of girls she didn?t know, instead of some of her best friends); and
? ? ?-- ? ? ?we had a positive experience that summer (coach, parents and teammates were ALL wonderful).
Looking back, the odds seem to have been really stacked against softball, but my daughter is now playing 18U tournament ball (and loving it) while all her school friends seem to be either soccer players or cheerleaders.
The local softball rec league and travel league just can?t compete here with the soccer, basketball and gymnastics. And I don?t see anything changing for the girls around here anytime in the near future. We may now have a few more softball tournament teams in our area, but we still don?t have many softball instructors, 10U Ohio tournament teams, or people who know anything about tournament softball (or that softball doesn?t have to be sooooo boring). So I?m afraid it may take a looooong time for softball to catch up with soccer in our area.