after some complaints with practices (what, a teenage girl has better things to do with her time???
)one of them said, "during school ball, we practiced everyday." So practicing 2-3 times a week shouldn't be a big deal, and probably a requirment to reach that desired level.
but like other posts out there, girls at this age want/have several sports being played throughout the year, like volleyball, basketball, cross country or maybe even tennis (my own included)...and i know parents of other teams are afraid to lay down the gauntlet and be softball 100% ("should we, or shouldn't we" is the real shakesperean quote)..there's nothing inherently wrong with not practicing more, but make the practices you do have that much better...
and lilly of the slammers basically pointed that out (plus, can you imagine being a girl on that team and not showing up? i would feel so guilty, I'd beg for forgiveness with endless wind sprints)...there's no way those girls wouldn't be that good if they didn't go/if their parents didn't make that committment/and they all desired to play with the best (ie, California!)
i guess, in short, the girls/coaches/parents should all meet and iron out that desired goal for the year...do we want to be slammeresque? then it takes A+B and so on...do we want to be a top-notch "B" level team? or do we want to be a competetive community-based team? theres nothing wrong with either of these scenarios, just as long as everyone desires the same thing..this is probably why we have disgruntled parents/players because maybe at the inception, it was "we want to compete at ____ level" but didn't end up being so..can't blame a player/parent for wanting to leave...you can still go out on the field, have fun and win, regardless of the level you play...