Play Varsity or go home?

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Feel you pain Tam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :'( We are actually looking at moving into a different school district.

 

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Grumpy if your moving into another district other then your own she would sit out a year (i believe) if she is outside your district and moves back then she can play. We really have to listen to our DD's. I know my feelings run deeper then hers so we(parents) are taking the grin and bear it approach, She just want to play.

 

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You don't have to sit out if you actually move to the new district.

 

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I believe that is correct...we just had a girl move in from New York and was put on the JV team.......so I don't think they do have to sit out a year.

 

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You daughter, when looking at the bigger picture, will learn many valuble lessons from sticking with the team. Not easy by any means. I have very high respect for a young adult that makes the decission to see a commitment through. It speaks alot about their integrity, moral character, and ability to deal with adverse situations.

Not a choice any of us would want to make.

Best of luck.

 

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feistymom
would you stick with a coach that tells you and public that you don't have a future on this team except to be a dh or benchwarmer. what do you learn? sometimes you need to move on and chalk it up as a failed event.

 

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Yes, I would stick it through the season. Why, my dad was a well known football coach in IL and he taught me to never quit. If you do, that person wanting you to give up has just won a mental battle. As hard as it is, and yes I have dealt with this, you get through it and become stronger.

I wish all parents were as willing to be supportive of your daughter as you are. Again, I do not eveny your position.