Team Rules

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Hello,

Looking for some good team rules that pertain to the players and then for the parents.

Any suggetions?
 
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What age? I think age impacts what your team rules might include.
 
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A few off the top of my head (this is 14U):

Players:

Show respect to teammates, coaches, opposing team and coaches and umpires

No cell phone use during games or practices

Be on time to practices and games and ready when practice/warm-ups start


Parents:

No coaching from the sidelines

No arguing with coaches or umps

24 hour cool-off rule before approaching coach when upset

Hmmm... I can't remember them all. I didn't study too hard because I agreed strongly with them enough that it was easy to follow!
 
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Issues Not Appropriate to Discuss with the Coach
1. Playing time
2. Team strategy
3. Play/pitch calling
4. Other student athletes, unless it affects your child?s behavior

For Players:
No Talking while coach is talking.
Only touch other players in a positive way (High 5's, knuckles, etc)

I manage 10U so I also talk to them a lot about school and other off- field stuff like bullying and being bullied. They have heard me say this a million times. "I want 1, good kids. 2, good students and 3, good ball players. In that order."
 
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For kids:

1) Set up a curfew. Otherwise they'd be up all night and very sluggish in the morning

2) No swimming on Thursday nights. It takes away a lot from them for the weekend, especially if there's games on Fridays.

3) Sleepovers, nope. Not if there's a game on Friday.

For parents:

1) Help enforce those rules. Otherwise your kid may be the one who lets the team down or may not play.

2) Travel softball or rec s*****, better be softball.

I know it sounds a bit harsh, but the limits helps everyone out in the end. Plus, it begins the discipline needed to play at the next level. Those who can't hack it, will eventually leave. Probably a big reason why there's a drop from 10U teams to 18U teams. JMHO
 
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Issues Not Appropriate to Discuss with the Coach
1. Playing time
2. Team strategy
3. Play/pitch calling

Gotta disagree here, while I certainly understand where you are coming from, stating they are not appropriate to discuss makes you as the coach look bad IMHO. Makes it appear your "door is closed". These are all things that CAN be discussed if addressed in the proper way. Sure, many parents don't grasp the proper way and as a coach you expect that, but if Susie's Dad comes and asks politely why Susie isn't getting any time at shortstop and why you called a bunt attempt in with 2 outs, as a good coach you should be prepared to give straight honest answers.
 
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Playing time is not appropriate to talk to coach about?

I totally disagree with that. I want a kid to come to me if they feel they are not getting enough time. For one that shows me that they care and they want to get better. If you have a kid that sits there and is okay riding the pine than you took the wrong kid during tryouts.

My dd approached one of her coaches years ago to ask what she needed to improve on to get more playing time (she was 11 playing on a 2nd year 14u team). She was hands down better than the kids playing in front of her, by their own parents admission not mine. The coach told her what she wanted to see from her and in turn my dd worked her butt off to give her what she wanted to see. Ultimately, it was all a political thing but my dd worked hard to give the coach what she wanted to see.

If you have an honest reason for limiting a kids playing time, as a coach it is your duty to help them improve to get more playing time. JMHO
 
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1. Be Respectful. We expect everyone, the players, parents and coaches to be respectful towards each other and the umpires at all times.
2. Do not argue with your coaches, teammates, parents, the other teams or the umpire.
3. Do not be a distraction during practices or games.
4. Always be prepared to play. Don?t come to practice or a game without some of your gear because you didn?t think you would need it.
5. Focus/Pay attention. When your coaches are addressing you, look at them.
6. Never say ?I can?t?.
7. Accept responsibility for a mistake and move on. Brush it off.
8. No negativity. Only positive remarks towards teammates and other teams.
9. Hustle. We always run on and off the field, whether it?s practice or gametime.
10. Players are to remain in the dugout/bench area throughout the entirety of each game. If an emergency (i.e. bathroom) arises please let a coach or the scorekeeper know and if you have to leave the bench at least one of us will know.
11. Parents are to remain away from the dugout/bench area throughout the entirety of each game.
12. No coaching from stands. Parents and Grandparents you can cheer for the team, your daughter or granddaughter, but please do not coach the girls.
13. 24 hour cooling/think it through period. We ask that if anyone has any issues or concerns related to the team or coaching, please wait at least 24 hours after practice or games to discuss them with us.

Repeat offenses of any of these rules will result in some type of action to be taken by the coaches. If it becomes apparent that someone simply cannot adhere to any of the team rules, then the guilty party may be asked to leave the team.
 
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I totally disagree with that. I want a kid to come to me if they feel they are not getting enough time. For one that shows me that they care and they want to get better. If you have a kid that sits there and is okay riding the pine than you took the wrong kid during tryouts.

My dd approached one of her coaches years ago to ask what she needed to improve on to get more playing time (she was 11 playing on a 2nd year 14u team). She was hands down better than the kids playing in front of her, by their own parents admission not mine. The coach told her what she wanted to see from her and in turn my dd worked her butt off to give her what she wanted to see. Ultimately, it was all a political thing but my dd worked hard to give the coach what she wanted to see.

If you have an honest reason for limiting a kids playing time, as a coach it is your duty to help them improve to get more playing time. JMHO

I agree with you, that's not my rule lol. That's on somebody else's post. I coach JV, Rec and travel ball. To be honest I think I'd be disappointed in one of my players who wasn't a starter but was working hard and didn't approach me and ask how to get more playing time.
 
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Three simple rules for all age groups.

1) Players play

2) Coaches coach

3) Parents sit quietly in the stands or down the right field line and eat hot dogs. Enjoy your daughters playing - it goes by very fast.
 
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Oh yea - and NO BOYS once the tournament starts. They can come watch, but no talking to them until the day is over.
 
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We have Both a Player & Parent code of conduct that must be signed. Here they are:

Player

Core Practices
? The physical and emotional health and safety of athletes are a primary consideration of the Breakers.
? Appropriate training and conditioning are required for all players as instructed by coaches.
? Players make a commitment in writing to abstain from the use of alcohol, tobacco and other illegal substances.
? Players learn the value of competition and how to handle success with grace and failure with dignity.

Unacceptable Practices
? Excessive training and conditioning.
? Displays of disrespect toward officials, coaches, team mates and the opposing team and their fans through their words and actions.
? Use of performance-enhancing drugs (including energy drinks), tobacco, alcohol or other illegal substances.
? Failure to report injuries or illness to their coach.
? Failure to respect individual differences and diversity.
? Throwing of equipment will lead to being benched/and or suspension.
? Engaging in a physical altercation is cause for removal from the team.

Pledge
1. I hereby pledge to be positive about my youth fastpitch experience and accept responsibility for my participation by following this Code of Conduct.
2. I will encourage good sportsmanship from fellow players, coaches and parents at every game and practice by demonstrating good sportsmanship.
3. I will attend every practice and game that I can, and will notify my coach if I cannot.
4. I will do my best to listen and learn from my coaches.
5. I will expect to receive a fair amount of playing time.
6. I will treat my coaches, other players, officials and fans with respect regardless of race, sex, creed, or abilities and I will expect to be treated accordingly.
7. I deserve to have fun during my fastpitch experience and will alert my parents and coaches if it stops being fun!
8. I deserve to play in an environment that is free of drugs, tobacco, and alcohol and expect adults to refrain from their use at all fastpitch sports events.
9. I will encourage my parents to be involved with my team in some capacity because it is important to me.
10. I will remember that fastpitch is an opportunity to learn and have fun.


Parent

Code of Ethics: Every year the coaches of the Breakers Organization sign a Code of Ethics that stresses the vision of the Breakers Organization, Sportsmanship and Participation. As parents and players we must remember that our coaches are volunteers. They are doing the best that they can to teach the players the game, rules and to act properly on and off the field. In the opinion of the Organization, they are doing a great job and we, as parents need to appreciate their efforts. The Organization has created a Code of Conduct for the parents, players and spectators.

Preamble: The essential elements of character-building and ethics in sports are embodied in the concept of sportsmanship and six core principles: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and good citizenship.
Everyone participating in the Breakers Organization, whether as a player, coach, official, parent or spectator is entitled to do so in an environment of courtesy and safety. Accordingly, all spectators are asked to observe the following:
As a parent/legal guardian of a child involved in a program of the Breakers Organization, I agree to abide by and follow the rules and guidelines below:
I therefore agree:
1. I will not force my child to participate in sports.
2. I will remember that children participate to have fun and that the game is for your youth, not adults.
3. I will inform the coach of any physical disability or ailment that may affect the safety of my child or the safety of others.
4. I will learn the rules of the game and the policies of the organization.
5. I (and my guests) will be a positive role model for my child and encourage sportsmanship by showing respect and courtesy, and by demonstrating positive support for all players, coaches, officials and spectators at every game, practice or other events.
6. I (and my guests) will not engage in any kind of unsportsmanlike conduct with any official, coach, player, or parent.
7. I will not encourage any behaviors or practices that would endanger the health and wellbeing of the athletes.
8. I will teach my child to play by the rules and to resolve conflicts without resorting to hostility or violence.
9. I will demand that my child treat other players, coaches, officials and spectators with respect regardless of race, creed, color, or ability.
10. I will teach my child that doing one?s best is more important than winning, so that my child will never feel defeated by the outcome of a game or her performance
11. I will praise my child for competing fairly and trying hard, and make my child feel like a winner every time.
12. I will never ridicule or yell at my child or other participant for making a mistake or losing a competition.
13. I will emphasize skill development and practices and how they benefit my child over winning. I will also deemphasize games and competition in the lower age groups.
14. I will promote the emotional and physical well-being of the athletes ahead of any personal desire I may have for my child to win.
15. I will respect the officials and their authority during games and will never question, discuss, or confront coaches after a game. I will take time to speak with coaches at an agreed upon time and place.
16. I will demand a sports environment for my child that is free from drugs and tobacco and I will refrain from their use at all sports events.
17. I will refrain from coaching my child or other players during games and practices, unless I am one of the official coaches of the team.
18. I will respect the property and equipment used at any sports facility.
I understand that by signing this document I am agreeing to support and promote this Parent/Legal Guardian Code of Conduct Agreement. Further, my failure to comply with this Agreement or my participation in any of the defined CONDUCT SUBJECT TO DISCIPLINE will result in disciplinary action, up to and including expulsion from the Breakers Organization.
 
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flarays is dead on !!!!! :D

- Coaches coach, players play, parents sit and watch and eat dogs.
 
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here's our 'forever rules'. they have served us well and continue to evolve...

http://www.ladybomberfastpitch.com/mission.html

I just read through it and love them-straight and to the point. People always want player and parent rules discussed. I like how you included coaches' rules as well. True sign of the entire team showing unity. Everyone understands what is expected of them as well as the entire team.

Good job.
 
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thanks init...it's amazing what happens when you roll out clear expectations for everyone. we have our issues, but when we can reference our forever rules as the expectation when we do have an issue, there's no discussing it.
 

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