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As we begin yet another school season I feel compelled to point out what I believe to be the problem with most coaches (even travel coaches)
When my DD was in middle school her coach was not a very good leader and sometimes created more drama than the girls.
Her freshman year the first year coach was young, a strict disciplinarian and caused allot of turmoil amongst the team and parents. This coach was not asked to come back the next year.
We moved so she transferred schools her sophmore year and that coach had a strong program in place and my DD only got to DH with very limited time on defense.
All of these coaches contributed to where my DD is today. Everything they did, brought her to where she is today.
She just verballed to a D1 school as a junior and is looking forward to another great high school and travel season.
The problem with most coaches is that parents don't teach their DD to respect the coach NO MATTER WHAT! The problem with most coaches is that parents and their DD don't work hard to get better and be the best player and teammate they can be. The problem with most coaches is not the coaches at all. It is unrealistic parents and players who have high expectaions and demands and very little work ethic and respect.
It starts with respect of the authority figure. In school ball you get what you get....make the most of it, work your tail off and earn what you want. In travel ball, same things apply except you have some choice about the coach. There may be politics, poor coaching and some unfair things happen. If I said it once I said it a hundred times..."the coach is the leader of the group, respect the coach and their decisions and make the most of it. Work hard on your own to get better and to prove you deserve to be on the field."
I can't begin to explain how hard she worked (with results, not just putting time in) and it shows to everyone who has seen her year after year.
I know there will be some who will get on here and tell us how this sounds good, "but you should hear what happened to my DD..." BLAH BLAH BLAH
Respect the coach as the authority figure you need to answer to.
Work your tail off on your own to prove you should be on the field and actually get better.
TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FUTURE AND YOUR PRESENT
When my DD was in middle school her coach was not a very good leader and sometimes created more drama than the girls.
Her freshman year the first year coach was young, a strict disciplinarian and caused allot of turmoil amongst the team and parents. This coach was not asked to come back the next year.
We moved so she transferred schools her sophmore year and that coach had a strong program in place and my DD only got to DH with very limited time on defense.
All of these coaches contributed to where my DD is today. Everything they did, brought her to where she is today.
She just verballed to a D1 school as a junior and is looking forward to another great high school and travel season.
The problem with most coaches is that parents don't teach their DD to respect the coach NO MATTER WHAT! The problem with most coaches is that parents and their DD don't work hard to get better and be the best player and teammate they can be. The problem with most coaches is not the coaches at all. It is unrealistic parents and players who have high expectaions and demands and very little work ethic and respect.
It starts with respect of the authority figure. In school ball you get what you get....make the most of it, work your tail off and earn what you want. In travel ball, same things apply except you have some choice about the coach. There may be politics, poor coaching and some unfair things happen. If I said it once I said it a hundred times..."the coach is the leader of the group, respect the coach and their decisions and make the most of it. Work hard on your own to get better and to prove you deserve to be on the field."
I can't begin to explain how hard she worked (with results, not just putting time in) and it shows to everyone who has seen her year after year.
I know there will be some who will get on here and tell us how this sounds good, "but you should hear what happened to my DD..." BLAH BLAH BLAH
Respect the coach as the authority figure you need to answer to.
Work your tail off on your own to prove you should be on the field and actually get better.
TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FUTURE AND YOUR PRESENT