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Like with most posts that begin to get torn apart and over analyzed I believe if the three of us had a conversation we may agree more than we disagree.
Let me simplify: For many years I have taught my daughter to take the high road, be part of the solution not part of the problem. In a team activity it is important that the leader be respected and allowed to lead. As a player on that team, your job is to play well and be well prepared to execute the coaches plan.
I wanted to share this philosophy with OFC'ers who are working hard to play college ball by saying "hey, here is what we did and the college coaches seem to agree with how my daughter approaches the game".
Because you and many others can debate this and break down all of the sentences and paraphrase and quote and debate forever. The bottom line as I see it (from my first hand knowledge) is this is information that many may be interested in learning about: A college coach wants a well trained, team player who will work hard on their own and respect the coaches authority on their own and plan and fill their role as a player on thier own. You may be interested to know how much research they did on her to make sure she was an independent thinker and person in general, that mommyand daddy were not carrying her bag and making her think and act a certain way too...that she truly was the well rounded young adult they are going to be happy to live with for four years.
They are not interested in mind numbed robots, nor are they interested in debating their coaching style or whether they may have hurt someones feelings in the process with a player for four years either.
So, good luck to all who are pursuing a similar dream, I have invested many years and hours of work into many athletes and hope this information is helpfull and uplifting too. I am not interested in a debate of any kind, but am happy to speak directly to anyone who may have questions about our experience and what to do and not do throughout the recruiting process. Feel free to PM me and I will get back right away.
Let me simplify: For many years I have taught my daughter to take the high road, be part of the solution not part of the problem. In a team activity it is important that the leader be respected and allowed to lead. As a player on that team, your job is to play well and be well prepared to execute the coaches plan.
I wanted to share this philosophy with OFC'ers who are working hard to play college ball by saying "hey, here is what we did and the college coaches seem to agree with how my daughter approaches the game".
Because you and many others can debate this and break down all of the sentences and paraphrase and quote and debate forever. The bottom line as I see it (from my first hand knowledge) is this is information that many may be interested in learning about: A college coach wants a well trained, team player who will work hard on their own and respect the coaches authority on their own and plan and fill their role as a player on thier own. You may be interested to know how much research they did on her to make sure she was an independent thinker and person in general, that mommyand daddy were not carrying her bag and making her think and act a certain way too...that she truly was the well rounded young adult they are going to be happy to live with for four years.
They are not interested in mind numbed robots, nor are they interested in debating their coaching style or whether they may have hurt someones feelings in the process with a player for four years either.
So, good luck to all who are pursuing a similar dream, I have invested many years and hours of work into many athletes and hope this information is helpfull and uplifting too. I am not interested in a debate of any kind, but am happy to speak directly to anyone who may have questions about our experience and what to do and not do throughout the recruiting process. Feel free to PM me and I will get back right away.