This rerun comes back year after year... and guess what softball fans? It won't change either. So, like your mother taught you, change the things you have the power to change, and ignore the rest. Move on!!
A foolish coach is a wise teacher. Kids aren't stupid - they know an a** when they see one. Consider one of these "episodes" a learning experience, and move on. If EVERYONE would heed that advice, these guys would fade away for lack of players.