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Ok "devils advocate....what do you mean by not the right fit?....I guess it depends but unless my daughter was in harms way or being verbally abused by players or coaches I feel that I would make her stick it out. That is where the research comes in. With our team we met all the prospective parents, coaches, players before any commitment was made. That is just how our organization did things. I do understand that you said both teams would be ok if she left but what is that teaching her? I personally feel it would be fine to offer a tryout for the next season. As long as it is done in a tactful way not to make her or her parents feel you are trying to get her to leave mid-season or even to fill in. But no one should feel threatened by your offer. If she is happy where she is at her filling in will not be an issue and if she isn't interested in a tryout she just doesn't come. But as a coach I don't think I would want a player who jumped ship mid-season because who's to say she isn't going to do it again?