Timac,
Good points also. You are so right, when the spotlight hits you in softball it either makes you "shine" or it "vaporizes" you, LOL, no hiding.
The flip side of the point, too, is that many kids (mine included for a while) don't like softball because you often times have virtually no opportunity to impact the game, or so it seems. In soccer, basketball, etc, you can move to where the action is, or force the pace of play, or force the action by injecting yourself heroicly, as long as you maintain positional integrity and do not ignore primary responsbilities for heroic action. It wasn't until my kid reached a higher level of play where everyone on the field is made to understand their role on a specific play (backup, covering bases, rundowns, etc) that softball became "enjoyable" as a team sport. For the longest time at the lower developmental levels she felt like she was stymied watching stuff happen all around her for 90 minutes, while she had only a few impactful moments (hitting, a few fielding plays). Things even out over time and development as kids grow, but if you are more mature or simply better athletically at an early age, it is easy to see why those kids would find more of an attraction and enjoyment factor in the "motion" team sports like soccer, basketball, etc., during the early years.
On the other hand though, if seriously like the spotlight, there is probably nothing better than softball, toeing the rubber, catching, playing another prominent position, or "basking" in your time at bat.
Hope Hockeybuckeye doesn't mind that we have now seriously hi-jacked this thread, LOL.