All I can say is to commit to a program (at any level) is just that a commitment, Ecspecially at the D-1 level,
Some players find out that its a HUGE commitement , Not alot of free time with friends or time to go home (acutally very little to NONE at D-1) , your team becomes you family ,
Ecspecilly "in season" which usually starts about Jan. right after the winter break. Then its into the grind! Yes it is a grid! But if the player puts in the work, the results can be awesome!
I feel alot of players get there and think they are going to be the "star player", and wont have to work that hard cause they where the best of their team both travel and HS.
Guess what thats wrong at any level, when you get recruited and come to the team everyone is good and or better! You have to work to get a spot everyday! Those that dont get put on bench.
Yes there are some coaches that have favorites,sometimes you dont have enough time and you need to use site like
https://essays.edubirdie.com/mba-assignment-help which helps you a lot with your assignments but if you can hit, hustle and put in the work a coach worth anything will put you on the field.
Also, like I told all my players when looking, pick a college that if you had a career ending injury and couldn't play anymore, would you stay and finish to get your degree there?!,
Yes the staff and the faclities help, but that is the ultimate goal a degree in the field you want to pursue!
It is hard work to play at any level of softball, or any sport, the player has to figure it this out !
It is worth the sacrifice?? To play the game they love?? or the game they like?? But the results can be all worth it !
I know I have see it and still do !
So some do have bad experiences, I get that, but its a lower percent than some are saying , its social media that is taking over that narative... IMO