Right there it is.
As I recently told someone, dd and I were running errands and saw a co-ed group of adults playing slow-pitch in a nearby field. I could tell she wanted to check it out, so when we got back, I told her to go on over and ask if she could play, too.
At first she said no, that would be weird. But I said "If you and some friends had a pick up game going and someone came over with a glove and asked if they could play, you'd be delighted."
She went over, and it turned out to be a church team, and they were indeed delighted to have her practice with them. She had a great time and even got to use a wooden bat for the first time, lol!
It was just like when she was a little girl---asking new kids if she could play, too. She came home muddy and grinning, and it did my heart good to see her play just because she loves to play.