I'm with LAKEFP on this. Driving those distances with the quality teams and tournaments right here is over the top IMHO. I can see 2-3 times a summer for tournaments, but driving 200 miles for practices and hitting instruction? Please. Who has that kind of time?
As for going where the coaches are for tournaments, IMO there's a lot more to it than that. If you have the credentials and contact these coaches ahead of time, you open your own doors and can save thousands in travel expenses. If you're that good, they will come to you, too. And afterall, if it's the scholarship you're after, then it must have something to do with financial needs, so why spend those thousands that may be better spent on her education?
I guess I'm not nearly as hard core as some of the other posters and don't want to offend. But there are things that I read that make me scratch my head and ask, "are they really in it for the kids?"