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I wanted an opinion from others to what they think about this statement!! please read in its entirety as it is very important!!!
I coached softball team this year 12u rec ball . And I did not do an all-stars list. I had told president that I wasn't turning list in because the cple that could of made it didn't deserve it and told her the names of the girls and why!! 1 of the girls that could of made it didn't deserve it because of attitudes with throwing gear around, missing practices and practicing with opposing team on more than 1 occasion plus several other things ( not this 1 girl in particular) although she didn't listen(on some key plays) sometimes or play with correct attitude sometimes. thats not why she didn't get on the list!! The other girl that could of made it cost us tourney forfeits cuz she chose not to show up. The rest of the girls did deserve it, but there was no way they would let them on the all-star team( just how they are, they knew who they wanted and list didn't mean anything, which I knew.. the other reason I didnt make a list was I didn't want anyone to say that I was playing favorites to anyone girl( since my daughter was on the team along with friends kids)
So this was posted on my wall earlier tonight!! now I don't know how they found out what I said or why they think it was directed towards their daughter( which it wasn't)Yes this girl was on all-stars last year but parents made a cple of comments about lack of $$ and the coaches would have to get her there and back.( why would I put them in that position being friends of ours!!!) and as far as I am concerned they all should of gone if 1 did!! some of the least experienced players played with more heart than some of the most experience. so I thought that best thing was not to turn in a list that way no one could say anything derogatory or otherwise,
well apparently it backfired on me as u can see from what was written below,Now mind you, these are friends( are , where whatever) I have taken their kids to softball, ******, babysat their little girls , they have borrowed everything from tools to sugar , cake mixes( for a sweet-tooth), fingernail polish remover ,eggs and yes even toilet-paper ( no they didn't bring it back afterwards, LOL), Yes they would replace, but the moral is, we are where all friends!!!! We helped them any way they needed it!!!!!
so this was copied and pasted word for word, and I want to know what yall think of it!
and how yall would of handled an all-star list and just in general about this problem!!
now mind u , I never said anything about any one being in the running of all-stars!! so this is what was wrote on my FB wall!!
well -------- (names left out)worked her *** off all season and was in the running for allstars...but someone didn't think she was gd enough...all I have to say is karma is a bitch...careful for what u do to others..
now how would yall take this!!! and what if anything would yall say to this person/friend???????????
PLease leave a reply with what yall think and feel I should do/handle this situation!!
Thank you
I coached softball team this year 12u rec ball . And I did not do an all-stars list. I had told president that I wasn't turning list in because the cple that could of made it didn't deserve it and told her the names of the girls and why!! 1 of the girls that could of made it didn't deserve it because of attitudes with throwing gear around, missing practices and practicing with opposing team on more than 1 occasion plus several other things ( not this 1 girl in particular) although she didn't listen(on some key plays) sometimes or play with correct attitude sometimes. thats not why she didn't get on the list!! The other girl that could of made it cost us tourney forfeits cuz she chose not to show up. The rest of the girls did deserve it, but there was no way they would let them on the all-star team( just how they are, they knew who they wanted and list didn't mean anything, which I knew.. the other reason I didnt make a list was I didn't want anyone to say that I was playing favorites to anyone girl( since my daughter was on the team along with friends kids)
So this was posted on my wall earlier tonight!! now I don't know how they found out what I said or why they think it was directed towards their daughter( which it wasn't)Yes this girl was on all-stars last year but parents made a cple of comments about lack of $$ and the coaches would have to get her there and back.( why would I put them in that position being friends of ours!!!) and as far as I am concerned they all should of gone if 1 did!! some of the least experienced players played with more heart than some of the most experience. so I thought that best thing was not to turn in a list that way no one could say anything derogatory or otherwise,
well apparently it backfired on me as u can see from what was written below,Now mind you, these are friends( are , where whatever) I have taken their kids to softball, ******, babysat their little girls , they have borrowed everything from tools to sugar , cake mixes( for a sweet-tooth), fingernail polish remover ,eggs and yes even toilet-paper ( no they didn't bring it back afterwards, LOL), Yes they would replace, but the moral is, we are where all friends!!!! We helped them any way they needed it!!!!!
so this was copied and pasted word for word, and I want to know what yall think of it!
and how yall would of handled an all-star list and just in general about this problem!!
now mind u , I never said anything about any one being in the running of all-stars!! so this is what was wrote on my FB wall!!
well -------- (names left out)worked her *** off all season and was in the running for allstars...but someone didn't think she was gd enough...all I have to say is karma is a bitch...careful for what u do to others..
now how would yall take this!!! and what if anything would yall say to this person/friend???????????
PLease leave a reply with what yall think and feel I should do/handle this situation!!
Thank you