Girls have to feel good to play good. Is rec for fun w/her friends and travel to play better teams?? Also, something to ponder, the game is one of failure. 7 out of 10 at bats is a out and the other 3 are hits and check out cooperstown to see who is in there that meet those stats..Hang in there, having vcoached girls in 3 sports, including 2dd's cutting back might be a good idea until she makes up her mind. As a parent step back and relax, enjoy the time you have with her. Don't force yourself on her, allow her to make the choices she wants to then hold her to them or she will end up hating the sport and your relationship will suffer for a GAME.. Best of luck