just to clear this up a little - nobody said they are "bitching" they are new to TB and simply asking for advise from more experienced family's, coaches and thats why i thought putting it up on OFC would be a good idea to see what others have seen or gone thru over the years...
OFC'ers - sorry if my original post came across that this family is "bitching" because that is not how I wanted it to come across and i i dont think they are "bitching" yet.. lol This is a New TB family asking for advise is all....
I know this is a very touchy subject and I always hear about "cancer" but i dont think asking questions means you are problem parents, bitching or cancer parents... Thanks for all the input everyone!!! I am sure they will get some good information after reading all this.