I agree with HITTER that
ANY Girl can be that ONE - I read once (and wish I remembered who said it)
"
You can have ANYTHING you want in life; you just need to be willing to give up EVERYTHING to get it".
If the
ONLY reason your DD is playing softball is for the free ride to collage and a Team USA jersey - you probably should stop now. Like HITTER said start a collage fund. Find out what she really wants to do, Point her passion towards that because if they are not playing because the
LOVE the game those other things will probably never come.
But... for those girls who can hope for no more than getting to play
sometimes on their high school team - but Love to play - do all you can, be your best - If you have other things other than softball - that's cool. enjoy softball as much as you want.
I think a lot of us on forums like this get caught up in the recruiting as the
end all and be all. For a lot of girls that's not the case. They love softball but not so much that they are willing to give up everything else to play it. They have as much right to the game as the girl who works two hours every day 7 days a week.
That girl will no doubt blow them off the field because she LOVES the work and is willing to do it... and she deserves to be on the elite teams -
But... there are teams out there for girls who think of softball as an activity - even travel teams where the girl do not live and breathe the sport and that's OK.
So... How does that answer the OP's question?
Whooo... wait, what was the original question?
From the 10u days on, how often have you became aggravated with the strike zone?
OH... Alot... I've been aggravated with the strike zone alot.