Lester ... if I'm a high school varsity coach, then I want to be paid to win and so I agree about playing the best ... we know that's the case in the "revenue/bigger name" sports like football and basketball, but is that always the case in softball? And keep in mind that the head coach is usually responsible for the JV and freshman programs as well.
And while I agree that our job as coaches is more about teaching and coaching the game, I have mixed feelings about having girls on the team who show up once a year to tryout, and don't work on their game the rest of the year. I really do like the notion of keeping girls who have been around 4 years, but only if they're going to have a great attitude and not act like they're entitled. And sorry, but I think that is hard to find. In the 4 years I coached, we probably kept 7-8 girls who were seniors who were not full-time starters, and only one of them had a great attitude and was there for the team. Maybe we were doing something wrong ...