Welcome.
First thing, Bear or Johnnies will probably move your post to the "Player Looking for Team" section.
Second, is she a 14 or 13 year old? Is she currently participating on a school santioned team (Middle school or High School)? What position(s) does she play?
Third, everyone on OFC can tell you about any particular organization, but what it really comes down to is your family, parents and DD, fitting with an organization. I take it from your post that DD is not currently on a travel team. Most teams are filled up but there are still some rosters that need filled. Please do not jump at the first offer. Take your time to do research on the organizations that you are interested in. There is great competition among the different organizations but they will help you find the right fit for your family. Yes, we are friends and we do talk to each other
. We really do want what is best for your DD.
There are older threads that deal with what questions to ask and why. But if you cannot find it, please ask on here and someone will be glad to answer you.
As for the college aspect. Yes travel teams are a good place to HELP get your DD seen and some organizations can help you with the process. However, it really comes down to your DD letting prospective coaches know which tournaments she will be participating in and your family doing the majority of the work. College coaches come to tournaments to look at girls that have contacted them. They do not have the time to look at every girl at a specific tournament. There are different threads about what families need to be doing about recruiting. The major factor that I feel really defines what colleges that your DD would be interested in is how far from home does she want to go? Once that is defined, then you can research the colleges that fit into your scope. The next factor would be what academic study she wants to pursue. No need to try for a college that doesn't offer the academic study.
Good luck on year search.