reminds me of a great analogous story:
guy #1: "what are the people like in idaho?"
guy #2: "what do you think of the people in your home town?"
guy #1: "they're selfish, inconsiderate, and rude."
guy #2: "then you'd probably think the folks in idaho are selfish, inconsiderate, and rude."
I've been either a coach or parent in probably 75 tournaments. never been to a bad one because I CHOOSE to make them all a good experience for me and my girls.
guy #1: "what are the people like in idaho?"
guy #2: "what do you think of the people in your home town?"
guy #1: "they're selfish, inconsiderate, and rude."
guy #2: "then you'd probably think the folks in idaho are selfish, inconsiderate, and rude."
I've been either a coach or parent in probably 75 tournaments. never been to a bad one because I CHOOSE to make them all a good experience for me and my girls.