If your dd's current travel team is losing some girls and you are not sure who is staying or going, why is it so difficult for everyone to be do open about things? After all, we only want what is best for our daughters, right? Sometimes that may be staying and sometimes it may be going, but sometimes it may depend on whether your dd is the one others are looking at to make their decision. An open discussion at the end of the season may be the best thing for the entire team in the long run. Does any one have a team that does this or is there a better option I'm not seeing?