Be careful what you asked for: softball is becoming an elitist and an individual sport

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Flarays, My stance is if you have an organization, you should provide the training necessary for that activity - whether it in house or outsource. There is a cost involved - ranging from yearly fees to individualized instruction. That part is ok, it is what it is. Some cost more than others. I have to come to terms that it is a business, and not everything is not for profit. Most everyone on this forum have made strong cases for their stance, and I respect that. Yours and most everyone are valid, and even though I may not agree with it or someone else not agree with mine, the game of softball moves forward. I do think sport is healthy. Sport is a major contributor for my profession and what I have endured in the past. You ask what can I do, I have volunteered coaching high school football with urban programs when I was in state and until I was physically unable to keep up with the grind. I have volunteered with baseball and softball for years with inner city, and my almsgiving stays private as the bible intended it to be. I have seen softball as one of a few sports that have moved from something that every kid could do and have the opportunity to take it to the next level, whether with an organization or in a rec program-to a program that is still great but having many athletes eliminated from contention due to the cost. tjsmize2 makes a great post on the teams that even though there is a charge, there are benefits that can be life changing. I agree with that, and I in no way think that should be taken away from a person or family if they can afford that. I hope people will gain some insight though that there are many individuals, and not only poverty stricken and urban, that will miss out on the opportunity because of financial restraints. It isn't that way in all sports, but softball is becoming harder and harder to find that urban or struggling success story. My ideas to try and help this may be as cynical as trying to convince people not to stay up with modern technology. As the emails came back stating their organization's charges and instructional charges, there are benefits - benefits that do come at a cost of hard work and sweat and one of financial. If many of the adults reading this thread remember back to the days they competed, where there activities that due to financial restraints, you were put at a disadvantage or eliminated. That's my "beef, rant, soapbox, agenda, issue, vendetta, or problem," call it what you want, but it has changed over the past five years- I hope the change over the next five years doesn't get that much more out of hand financially. For the people I have ruffled, I grew up in a time when boxing, baseball, basketball, and football could be considered a poor man's sport. We boxed because there wasn't as much expense. Basketball was always the same way, especially for the inner city kids. Baseball could be played anywhere, or at least a version of it, a stick - a ball we could handle - no equipment needed. Our skills were learned by watching, observing each other. Golf, not a chance, they wouldn't let an Whop, Mick, Pollock, and most definitely a person of color. I still believe if you are good enough in football, they find a way; basketball and track also; but it seems as if softball (maybe their brother baseball) has gone the other way. Flarays, I do applaud you for your post on the efforts in Orlando - you would enjoy meeting if you don't already know Coach Fobbs at Michigan State - amazing man, even more amazing resume.
 
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I think what JoeA said about seeing this happen years ago is really interesting. I’m sure some of the guys who have been around softball long enough have watched this grow from a sport in which really talented and dedicated individuals could put a team together and dominate, to a sport which now requires corporate sponsors, board members, recruiting and development specialists (at a minimum) just to survive out there. I for one happen to think this is a net positive direction for our athletes when all is considered, but I do see how lower income families could struggle. Now that I finally understand what Billy was really trying to say, I can certainly appreciate his concerns in regards to that segment of the softball community. Right now at this stage I think you still have a game that is largely dominated by a lot of softball dads (who have become organized) and some outsiders with small-scale financial interests. Unfortunately, as cold as it seems, these are not always the people who are looking the most to give back to the more financially challenged individuals. Maybe guys like Billy do have their finger on the pulse of the game better than guys like me who are primarily interested in “how do I get my kid better,” or “how do we make this organization more competitive?” So I guess when flrays says he got a lot of “that sounds like a great idea” but little action, it really doesn't surprise me very much.

What I would really like to know however, is if the guys like JoeA and flarays who have been around and seen this coming … do you think as the bigger corporations like Mizuno and DeMarini take interest in our sport they will have the deeper pockets and the vested interest to see programs get instituted to help some of those less fortunate financially? So even if it appears contradictory, is it possible that as this game progresses and grows in popularity we start to see more support for those who need it? I would love to hear a few thoughts on that if anyone is still reading this thread.
 
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Billy,
one afterthought that may be still around out there is the group "play hard don't blink" in Ohio that offered free helmets and shields to organizations to save kids eyes in softball, baseball and ******** All you had to do was fill out a five question questionnaire. It was like would your kid wear a face ask type simple questions..... Not sure if they still exist, but you could try....
 
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Waiting for Billy to start up his own team/organization...................................................
 
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tried to read the last 3 pages of this .. all I got was a headache .
 

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