I have a situation where some girls from our 1st year (97) team were taken aside and told that they have been hand picked to combine with some (97) girls from the second year team and a couple girls from the younger team (98) that are stud athletes to create an "all-star" team. We were told this could only happen if we all agreed and made a commitment immediately (mid-July). Based on that scenario, we took a leap of faith, agreed, and didn't even go to any try-outs. In reality, only a few of our (97) girls were added to the (98) team moving up from 12U and there were no girls from the older team. This isn't what we agreed to so we left the team. I don't feel guilty for leaving as the organization didn't keep their end of the deal.
I don't think the organization mislead us intentionally, as we all know how things can come toghether and fall apart just as quickly, but we were mislead nonetheless. In the end you do what is best for you DD.