Re: How important is high school softball to colle
My thought is regardless of whether h.s. ball helps get your daughter recruited to play ball in college, she should WANT to play h.s. ball. I pretty much hated h.s. ball my daughter?s freshman year. Very few girls at her h.s. had any interest in softball, so both the coaching and the team were rather sad. She had always played on some pretty good summer teams and it was pretty painful FOR ME to watch some of her h.s. games.
She had fun though. In part, she had fun because she was one the best players on the team; she liked seeing her name in newspaper; and her h.s. team eventually did have some success. She had more fun, though, because it is a great game, atmosphere and experience! She got to play a game she loved with and in front of classmates and neighbors. Some of the girls on her h.s. team were lifelong friends. Others she formed friendships with that she would not have had but for h.s. softball.
Does she like softball as much or more today than ever because she played h.s. ball? I don?t know. I do know, though, if I were a college coach, I?d want to see that something in a recruit that tells me this kid is playing h.s. ball -- and will play college ball -- because she loves it, not just because I?m going to pay her to play ball. Certainly, as a dad, that?s the most important thing; because once she gets to college, I?m not going to ask her to take on the added workload of college sports just for an athletic scholarship.
She?s headed to college next year on a softball scholarship because she loves the game and she WANTS to play ball for her school. I?ll be surprised if that ever changes, but if it does, THEN she won?t play for her school. Afterall, I?m already up to my *** in debt paying for two kids to go to college, what difference will one more make?