And here is where you can tell the difference for those that want to play college ball and those that are rec style mentality.
You already see one parent on here talking about sitting on the bench. . .This mentality is what you are dealing with here in Ohio. You want to be successful in Nationals and in the high profile tournaments both in state and out, you better be carrying 14 to 16 players for a variety of reasons, and each has been mentioned on her except for two, injuries, and unexpected issues, i.e. illness, family issues, etc. Until you can get parents to understand that a DH or a Flex is being part of the team and is playing in the game, you going to continue to have the problamatic issues arrise.
Some of the parents in this area just don't get the big picture of what quakerman and sammy discribe on here. Use the DP/Flex to it's advantages as discribed in the rules. . .so many coaches just don't understand the rule in it's entiretly. Be honest about play time. . .everyone get's some type of play in pool, but we are playing to win in bracket. Parent's learn that there is always somebody better out there, and that being a courtesy runner, a dp, or a flex is helping the team and is part of the playing time. It may not be the exact amount you want, but it is playing time. Would you tell a college coach that a dp/flex is not playing time? If not why are you complaining all the time here?
I would love to see more of the CA, FL, TX, GA mentalty being used here, but best of luck to all that try. It is a hard road to start and needs to be paved in layers.