I have to disagree. It’s hard not to be concerned.. She’s still a teenager and is taking a beating at practice. I have no intentions of going to the coaching staff myself. I agree that is up to her. I just don’t think she will. She’s just that type to not say anything. The purpose of my post was just to hear others thoughts on this. I appreciate the feedback.
I still understand you concern. That's just being a parent. In a way you have helped make my point with this response.
She confided in you to raise the concern. She's an adult. You can't do anything about the issue. She needs to air this out with somebody that can. You need to encourage her to do so if she feels it is important enough. This is the life lesson she needs to learn and the steps for you to let go. It needs to be done or she needs to make a choice that she doesn't want to pick this battle. That's always been my "go to" term with the kids. "Pick your battles" in life.
Let me share a quick analogy. This is no different than her car needs repairs and she calls you to tell of her problems. If you would make the call, set up the scheduled repairs, perhaps take it in for her because she's "busy", and pay for it, she's learned that all she needs to do in life is call you.
I think you get my point. I hope others reading this are triggered by it and have the light bulb go off over their head.
Don't ever stop worrying. You know what I would say next......