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So, i know understand why teams, travel and school ball alike, take their team bonding to some neutral location (better to brainwash you, my dear, lol). So over the past few years I have rolled my eyes at the attempts to "bond" the girls to all bleed the same team color, only to find out that one game into the season that all the girls hate the seniors, one girl is dating another one's ex, and the freshman on the team who keeps diving at practice makes the older girls sigh "whatever, just go to JV".
So I've let my DD go to South Carolina, camping in Hocking Hills for volleyball and all sorts of other things (for my money, Classics have done all the right things when it has come to team bonding events). So, it was inevitable that with our levy failing, the trip to South Carolina for games and bonding was gone. Next best thing? Non-coach sponsored sleepover!
So, I ask you, dear reader, what would you do? Say all the team was at the house, chilling out, when suddenly there is a boy at the door. Do you,
A--let him in
B--let the girl he wants outside
C--tell him to go away
Now i know why team bonding is far away--no stalkers!
Now, the answer is D--none of the above, because the girl goes outside with him and an argument ensues. So do you:
A--call the cops
B--let the girl come back inside as if nothing happens
C--warn the boy you're calling the cops
And in the event that something were to happen, who is liable? Would i as a parent be upset that a girl on the team could have been put in danger, and therefore someone else's kid too? Would i want to know as a coach? Can a coach even do anything about it anyway? Would you have told the girl to go home or have called her parents? Is anyone really responsible anymore?
Weigh in, my friends
So I've let my DD go to South Carolina, camping in Hocking Hills for volleyball and all sorts of other things (for my money, Classics have done all the right things when it has come to team bonding events). So, it was inevitable that with our levy failing, the trip to South Carolina for games and bonding was gone. Next best thing? Non-coach sponsored sleepover!
So, I ask you, dear reader, what would you do? Say all the team was at the house, chilling out, when suddenly there is a boy at the door. Do you,
A--let him in
B--let the girl he wants outside
C--tell him to go away
Now i know why team bonding is far away--no stalkers!
Now, the answer is D--none of the above, because the girl goes outside with him and an argument ensues. So do you:
A--call the cops
B--let the girl come back inside as if nothing happens
C--warn the boy you're calling the cops
And in the event that something were to happen, who is liable? Would i as a parent be upset that a girl on the team could have been put in danger, and therefore someone else's kid too? Would i want to know as a coach? Can a coach even do anything about it anyway? Would you have told the girl to go home or have called her parents? Is anyone really responsible anymore?
Weigh in, my friends