Dan, we had a televised example of this 2 years ago in the WCWS when the F2 from Baylor broke her face from a foul tip with no batting helmet facemask. The response? Olympic Icon, All Time HR Leader, Div. 1 College Coach Stacey Nuveman, when asked about the use of masks in general, smirks and chuckles a bit when explaining that...
“I don’t like (face masks). I think they’re cumbersome. I tell my (SDSU) girls who wear them, ‘come on, toughen up’.”
THAT IS THE ISSUE!!
Not one college coach, not one Olympic Icon (Hello Jennie Finch, Cat Osterman, Monica Abbott etc!!), not one FP commentator (Hello Cheri Kempf, Michelle Smith, Beth Mowans, Jessica Mendoza), NO ONE came out with any statement of either A.) Support for wearing masks or, at the very least B.) Indifferance to wearing masks!!
Why???? Because the "unwritten rule" of FAR too many college coaches is that masks are a sign of weakness, and "if you're wearing a mask, I'm not going to recruit you to play at my school".
Hey Coach Murphy, what if Jackie Traina had her jaw torn away from a line drive to the face during this year's WCWS Championship? Coach Candrea, what if Kenzie Fowler was put into a coma by a shot to the forehead in one of your televised Regional games? Hey Stacey Nuveman, what if you were shown a video clip of Jolene Henderson having one of her famous change ups drilled back at her, shattering her face and literally losing an eyeball right there in the circle, would you be able to hold back the laughs as you told her to 'toughen up'?!?!
Is that what it has to come to??
I have less than zero respect for Stacey Nuveman, coaches who question the use of a mask at their camp or any of that ilk, however these are candid moments that give a peek behind the curtain, and if you think that every girl and parent of girls watching that day who are at the age and in the process of trying to be recruited to follow their dream of playing softball in college didn't read between those lines, then you're kidding yourself.
I hate it. My DD pitches, and only wore her mask a few times this summer, but I left it up to her. We never talked about it, but I can't be so foolish to not think that some of the factors stated above haven't shaped her decision, and she has been 20 feet from a friend of hers that lost 4 teeth pitching.
I will continue to pray for her, her teammates and her opponents health and safety before every game like I always do, and for the day to come when the coaches will show the character and courage to dispell this stigma sooner rather than later. Since character and courage is what they are asking of our DDs, isn't it?