Yes she was on all my sanctions ASA, NSA, and USSSA. I don't think there is any rules set up there yet. At least in ASA you can be on more than 1 roster just can't play in the same tournament.
Yes she paid fee's don't know if they want them back but I defentaily wont give back. We don't charge a whole lot and it is made clear no refunds for dropping out after commiting.
Her dad wanted her to go to another team that he would coach after tryouts and she decided to stay with us. He was not happy but mom supported her decicion to do what she wanted. My Guess is dad influcenced her descion. He did this twice with his younger daughter, but those teams got a little more notice than I did.
No email is not our form of comunication except with tournament information. She dates my son, talks to him on phone every day, has been to our house in the last few weeks, saw her parents last week and talked about the up coming tournament. No mention of this. She hasn't been to any practices as is the same for about 4 girls. Not released from their school softball yet.
We do have a older solid defence this year who will have to step it up a notch but has the capability to still do well with my other 2 backup pitchers. I think we'll have a lot of fun if nothing else. many parents are releaved. this family screamed at their daughter a lot and many parents did not approve. We've had do ask dad to leave her alone or leave the diamond.