Thank you coach, and what's best for my daughter is for her to know she can play on that caliber of team next year if she wants to play for a "showcase" team. It will do wonders for her confidence and commitment level this year. She's not a "stud" (14yrs old/ 5'3/ 100 lbs) those are not STUD'ESK numbers. I'm not toting, no ulterior motives. Purely testing the waters, possibly, for next year. Planning ahead. To do otherwise would be foolish on my part. We've only been in tb 1 full year.
What are "Stud" numbers? Have you ever watched college ball? Girls come in all shapes and sizes. This really is not the first time I've heard people talking size about girls, but this isn't ballet, athleticism and an excellent work ethic trump size on every level in women's sports. Even better and I think trumps all is playing with "Heart", it's one of those intangibles.
The previous posts just don't make sense; maybe I'm not reading them properly. What would "ulterior motives" have to do with anything? Who brought that up? Are you referring to the comment; "more to the story", sometimes, it's too hard to explain every little detail in these posts and I thought that was the point of that comment. We are all just talking softball, just little girls playing ball; right?
I've re-read the entire thread and I'm still confused:
1. I think that's really a good (very least average) size (5'3/100lbs) for playing with 12 or 13 year olds? 14u right?
2. I think the majority of girls (average or even great ability) don't start TB until 12/13U? For example, look at the "Tallmadge All-Stars" just starting TB at 14u, and they are tried and true SB players. Look how large 10U vs. 12U vs. 14U tournaments are.
3. I would be devastated; if my child were "cut", because another family (who had already fully committed to another team) wanted to see if their dd could get an offer: TO REFUSE! The org didn't realize this was going on, they offered, started to build a team with this player. This is in poor taste, it's the reason why little girls get discouraged, has nothing to do with their ability, more to do with adults. Best policy, is honesty, IMHO!
4. Maddball44 dd will be 16u next year? Or 15 years old in 2015, right?