it's one thing to talk amongst ourselves about who we think is the top pitcher, catcher, ss, hitter whatever and make comparisons of players, teams etc....most of us are guilty of that. That happens at all levels : rec, HS, colleges recruiting, softball and every sport etc. and don't think the girls don't know about it because they do, they are not dumb. They know who gets the start in the tough games. They hear the chatter from their parents and teammates parents. I just think its a whole different animal to post something online on a public forum and compare a 13 year old "by name" to her teammate. The girls that play this sport deserve more respect than that!