There are alot of teams out there to chose from. What starts out to look like a good situation for your DD and family may not be. Sometimes picking a team is like buying a car, you need to test drive it to see if you like it, and you should never buy the first thing you see. Coaches are like car dealers also, they want you to believe that the choice you have made will be one you wont regret. It sometimes takes time to find that right team for your DD that is a good fit for her and the entire family. Check out teams first before deciding. Talk to other parents to see how they like it and most of all, make sure your schedule is flexable and affordable enough to meet the needs of the team. Alot of teams these days do alot of overnight traveling and it may be to much for some families. The car should match the driver. Don't buy a Hummer if you really want to drive a Cady. Good luck to all.