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I think Yoyo needs to read Blatzboy's title of this thread. BIG PICTURE!! How do you attend your 12u DD tryout and not know the team is made up of rec ballers before you commit to playing? I think Yoyo is looking for justification for bailing out, when honestly, as a parent, you don't need one. Your DD will get a reputation if it is done more than a couple times. but really at 12u, that's when you are driving home the work ethic and establishing the foundation, not worrying so much about the other players skills - which you should have made a judgement when watching the tryouts!
The tryout was a private tryout with just the coaches. We were told that the team mostly consisted of rec ballers that wanted to take their game to the next level. We were excited about the opportunity to grow and improve with a new team. Just because most of the other girls on the team do not work to improve their game IS NOT the reason we wish to leave. If that were the only reason not to stay, we would still be there as we feel that a commitment is a commitment and should only be broken in the most dire of circumstances. Because of all the drama that continually surrounds this team, We now feel the circumstances are dire indeed. And when I say drama, I mean MAJOR drama.
Here is some big picture reality, if your daughter wants to play college ball, she needs to hit - everything! and be able to play everywhere without losing much of a step, otherwise prepare to DP, and again, only if you hit everything...
I agree with you wholeheartedly! Please believe me when I say that I have no dreams of grandeur about DD playing D1 or even D3. As far as our family is concerned, college is for getting an education and preparing DD for her future career and life in general. If DD is lucky enough to be asked to play softball in college, that would be her decision and just be a bonus.
All of this is neither here nor there. I read the OP as trying to blame everything on the parents, players or a combination of both. If I have read that wrong or inferred something I shouldn't have I apoligize. IMO the reason families leave most teams are more for personal reasons than just trophy hunting. Again, JMO.