Who else's children have fell victim to the emotional abuse of some of the so called "elite organizations"? What kind of grown man can sleep at night treating young girls like the are disposable and worthless? Getting rid of players when better ones come along? Then its too late to go to other tryouts. No conscience at all from some of the so called men. I'm talking 14-15 year old girls!! Come on people! Get a grip on reality!
Smh...
1. at that age, elite organizations are going to find elite athletes and keep bringing them in to "put to the test" what they currently have, they carry 13,14,15 players, be ready to compete, elite organizations/colleges are always going to TRY to recruit better than what they have.
2. loyalty exists only if your child has a positive, upbeat attitude, is coachable, has room to grow, doesn't keep making the same mistakes (or a pitcher that throws 65)
3. if truly elite, you will not have a problem finding other tryouts or teams after the tryout dates...
4. "14-15 year old girls!!" 3 years away from being an adult... lets quit holding their hand when they fail, I have two dd in this age range---I have gone to an out-of-town tournament on an elite squad and had their positional player get 3 at-bats in 7 games, I have been a part of an elite team and daughter was riding the pine a lot... make it through the season, work hard and if you would like to make a change as a family then do it.... OR instead of bad mouthing the coach behind his/her back, go out there and get to work
5. Team fees are for "membership on the team", team fees doesn't mean automatic playing time.
6. Many of these elite organizations ask for big lump sum payments in different parts of the year, so they can make changes to the roster if it's not working out, for your benefit. $1000 for Fall and here comes your $1000 January payment and it's not working out, you can be asked to leave, it happens, but at least you are not out and additional $2k, and if coming from one of these elite teams, you will definitely find a landing spot