Always tough to lose a girl.....especially a girl you like.......reminds me of a few years ago we had a girl who if she just did the work she needed to she would have been without a doubt one of the top pitchers in the area......friends, boys, etc.....became the priority in her life.....(one's own personal choice), and the lack of work showed up in every single game we put her on the mound......all year we encouraged her to work every day at home, it never happened and we had to make a clear choice to part ways after the season....it was hard to do because we liked her and her family.......but the team comes first....always has and always will for those team seeking continous improvement..........try as you might developing into what some have deemed "elite" takes a special effort....homework, lessons, etc......altho my DD does not pitch...she still attends her weekly hitting lessons and puts the time in at the net in the garage during winter months because she knows she has to in order to compete with those who are also doing their homework!